Post Eagle Newspaper


Sep 28, 2023

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It’s Too Late To Say You Are Sorry

Some people assume that there always is “an open door” to walk through and apologize anytime that they get ready to.  Then before you know it…the same scenario is repeating itself, and here comes another lack-luster meaningless apology.

Men and women who do not value a relationship go right along and do whatever they please whenever and with whomever, and then they apologize.  Unfortunately besides the fact that their apologies don’t hold water…..the Karma that they are adding up for themselves will reap them their own “too little too late outcomes”.

A deck of cards never changes, unless you are playing with a cheater’s deck! The deck of cards that you are dealt shows you how someone operates. Why would you ever think that it will be different with you?  (Maybe for a while…but then the original person filters through.)

A man who is a womanizer is always a womanizer…always!  A woman “who loves the chase” but drops the interest in the man when caught is just proving to herself that “she still has what it takes” to catch a man!

After all is said and done, “it is too late to say that you are sorry”…the damage is already done.  But if you are a glutton for punishment, you will still be attracted to the same type of a person.  Therefore the same results.

Don’t feel sorry for yourself if you are hurt and you didn’t even get an “I’m sorry” out of it.  You are playing with a self-centered person who considers only their own feelings not yours.

I have said it before, I’ll say it again, you are “one of a kind and you deserve the (real) best not an imitation”.  Don’t lower yourself by accepting less than the best and an apology to go along with it!

An apology can never make you trust again… will always have a nawing reminder in the back of your mind.  Why do you think that there are so many singles living alone today?  They have “been there, done that” and don’t want the apologies anymore.  The peace of mind and peacefulness has more meaning to them.

The next time your doorbell rings, make sure “an apology isn’t walking through it”!

Volume XII, Article 62